Catching flights for all the wrong reasons

WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.679 --> 00:00:05.400 Welcome back. Welcome back to the latest, newest episode of your favorite podcast 2 00:00:05.440 --> 00:00:08.519 in mind, currently under construction. You know who it is. I'm your 3 00:00:08.560 --> 00:00:12.279 host. Thank you so much for joining us today. Uh It's a new 4 00:00:12.400 --> 00:00:16.879 day, new start, new mercies. That's all. Just uh take a 5 00:00:16.879 --> 00:00:21.039 moment to sit down and uh thank the most high for allowing us to see 6 00:00:21.120 --> 00:00:24.920 yet another day, another day that was promised, another day that again us 7 00:00:24.960 --> 00:00:30.760 the opportunity to get things together, to make things right, to Um, 8 00:00:30.760 --> 00:00:36.079 just the start over and uh have new mercies and everything. So again, 9 00:00:36.119 --> 00:00:41.960 if you haven't already today, take a moment and to say thank you to 10 00:00:42.079 --> 00:00:46.240 the most time because again, this is a day that we weren't promised, 11 00:00:46.280 --> 00:00:50.079 this is a day that we didn't have to wake up too, but he 12 00:00:50.159 --> 00:00:54.280 saw fit to breathe the breath of life and us once again and for us 13 00:00:54.320 --> 00:01:03.240 to have this day. Um U. I just wanna man, today's topic 14 00:01:03.399 --> 00:01:11.079 is like one of those really Um Oxymoron type of topics. Now, it 15 00:01:11.159 --> 00:01:14.719 can go either way. Now, before I get into it, what I 16 00:01:14.760 --> 00:01:19.760 want to do is preferences by singing this. I'm not taking either side for 17 00:01:19.879 --> 00:01:25.359 this. I'm going to give a few from both view points. All right, 18 00:01:25.400 --> 00:01:27.719 cousins and King folks, let's let's make that clear. Let's make that 19 00:01:29.359 --> 00:01:33.359 understood from the beginning. I'm going to give a viewpoint from both sides, 20 00:01:33.640 --> 00:01:36.200 because I can see it from both sides. But at the end of the 21 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:38.560 day, at the end of this particular episode, what I hope to do 22 00:01:38.799 --> 00:01:46.439 is bring some type of awareness to this Um, give somebody insight and hopefully 23 00:01:46.480 --> 00:01:49.959 for both parts, for both sides, that we can look at this better, 24 00:01:49.280 --> 00:01:56.599 better communicate what's what before moving forward and ended up putting yourself in situations 25 00:01:56.640 --> 00:02:01.640 like this from either way. So what I'm also seeing a growing trend of. 26 00:02:02.000 --> 00:02:05.560 You know, last episode we talked about the growing trend did we see 27 00:02:05.560 --> 00:02:08.759 of Um, angry black men, you know, uh, or these little 28 00:02:08.759 --> 00:02:12.680 boys, I can call them, being these little boys, uh, just 29 00:02:12.759 --> 00:02:15.120 being angry at black women and just wanted to step on them, down them 30 00:02:15.159 --> 00:02:19.759 and be greater and everything. But this episode is a little different, but 31 00:02:19.879 --> 00:02:25.240 it's still along the same deal of we're dealing with angry men, you know, 32 00:02:25.639 --> 00:02:30.919 uh. Do they have a point to be angry for this particular deal? 33 00:02:31.000 --> 00:02:38.560 Maybe, maybe not, but do our sisters have a point in their 34 00:02:38.639 --> 00:02:45.479 view on it? Who knows? Let's dig into it, shall we, 35 00:02:46.240 --> 00:02:52.319 one second job, cousins and kind of folks. All right, cousins again, 36 00:02:52.360 --> 00:02:55.000 folks, I do apologize for that brief pall, for that brief lapse 37 00:02:55.560 --> 00:03:00.599 uh and what I was doing at that particular moment um to take that call. 38 00:03:00.719 --> 00:03:04.000 That was a very important call I had to take. But Um, 39 00:03:04.039 --> 00:03:09.080 for the most part, um again, I I see this growing trend of 40 00:03:10.000 --> 00:03:17.919 Um, we have men that are inviting women that they maybe have been communicating 41 00:03:17.960 --> 00:03:24.319 with uh to travel um, either across the country or to a couple of 42 00:03:24.360 --> 00:03:30.360 states over, or even to some exotic destination, and they're treating these women. 43 00:03:30.400 --> 00:03:38.159 They are Um UH spending um thousands of dollars uh to show these women 44 00:03:38.439 --> 00:03:42.879 Um a good time, you know, for the flights itself, you know, 45 00:03:43.039 --> 00:03:49.319 the the food, the exotic hotels and everything that they're they're standing in. 46 00:03:49.719 --> 00:03:54.680 But then there comes, Um, some disconnect with them, you know 47 00:03:54.840 --> 00:04:00.919 that to point that uh, these brothers are expecting these them that they're flying 48 00:04:00.000 --> 00:04:04.199 out to, let's just call it for what it is, you know, 49 00:04:05.039 --> 00:04:13.080 to put out and that these sisters are not doing it. Um, some 50 00:04:13.159 --> 00:04:17.920 people think and feel that they are in the wrong for doing so. Some 51 00:04:18.040 --> 00:04:24.959 of these brothers are extremely upset with these sisters that they are not Um, 52 00:04:25.000 --> 00:04:29.600 that they've spent all of this particular money on them, and then they're expecting 53 00:04:29.600 --> 00:04:32.879 them put out and these sisters are not. So, uh, we have 54 00:04:32.920 --> 00:04:40.759 a dilemma here. Um. And then some of these brothers are even going 55 00:04:40.839 --> 00:04:44.160 as far as to, you know, they're putting these women out of their 56 00:04:44.160 --> 00:04:49.120 hotels, uh, canceling their flights for them to return to that to return 57 00:04:49.240 --> 00:04:53.560 home, and telling them to get it the best way that they can. 58 00:04:54.399 --> 00:05:00.399 I've seen, Um, not just one particular video. I have seen several 59 00:05:00.480 --> 00:05:06.639 different videos of this same thing, the same trend that's going on, and 60 00:05:09.360 --> 00:05:14.639 it's disturbing. It's to Sturb we took me on so many levels. Now 61 00:05:14.680 --> 00:05:19.199 again, like our prayer face in the early part of this of this particular 62 00:05:20.040 --> 00:05:26.439 recording of this of of this episode. I'm not taking sides one way or 63 00:05:26.439 --> 00:05:31.199 the other, I'm not blaming one more than the other, but I want 64 00:05:31.240 --> 00:05:36.639 to ensure that I give a fair assessment of this particular topic and I'm going 65 00:05:36.680 --> 00:05:40.920 to give a view from both points because again, like I said, at 66 00:05:40.920 --> 00:05:43.959 the end of the day, I'm not here to point the fingers or blame 67 00:05:44.040 --> 00:05:46.319 anybody for anything in any shape form of fashion, because you know, that's 68 00:05:46.319 --> 00:05:49.279 not what we do here, currently under construction. What we want to do 69 00:05:49.560 --> 00:05:53.800 is enlighten, we want to uplift, we want to encourage and at the 70 00:05:53.879 --> 00:05:58.639 end of each episode, we want you to come away with something that may 71 00:05:58.639 --> 00:06:03.120 have given you a reason to start a dialogue with someone else or a reason 72 00:06:03.160 --> 00:06:05.920 to say hey, to think like, Hey, you know what, I 73 00:06:06.000 --> 00:06:10.279 might need to check into that, or hey, you know what, that 74 00:06:10.399 --> 00:06:14.720 really inspired me to do X Y Z. So I'm in no way right 75 00:06:14.720 --> 00:06:20.439 now, with me being prepared to dive into this and my pointing fingers are 76 00:06:20.720 --> 00:06:26.199 pointing blame at any and anybody here or there. Okay, all right, 77 00:06:26.240 --> 00:06:28.240 cousins of Kimbels, y'all, stay here with me and now, y'all, 78 00:06:28.319 --> 00:06:30.279 y'all know how we roll. You know how we do this thing. So 79 00:06:32.319 --> 00:06:35.120 now I want to start right here. I'm gonna Start with the brothers. 80 00:06:35.839 --> 00:06:40.560 Now again, brothers, you are entire of you've been having a conversation with 81 00:06:40.600 --> 00:06:43.879 the woman, whether you've met her online, you met U through a mutual 82 00:06:44.000 --> 00:06:46.519 friend, uh, through one of these dating APPS, or whatever the case 83 00:06:46.600 --> 00:06:51.240 may be. UH, most of I've seen these have been maybe some instagram 84 00:06:51.319 --> 00:06:56.360 models, or so I know. The main video that most people have been 85 00:06:56.480 --> 00:07:01.680 having conversations about on Um Tiktok and twitter, especially on twitter. They've they've 86 00:07:01.759 --> 00:07:08.040 gone hard and deep on twitter, Oh my God. But Um, it's 87 00:07:08.079 --> 00:07:12.439 been about this one particular episode with this guy. He literally just he's in 88 00:07:12.480 --> 00:07:15.160 a challenger. He goes dropped off. He's filming at the same time saying 89 00:07:15.199 --> 00:07:17.240 that, yeah, she thought she should have set up here and come here 90 00:07:17.279 --> 00:07:20.680 and spend all my money up in this. That in the third and he's 91 00:07:20.720 --> 00:07:25.680 putting her out the car, telling her she's got the all. He's canceled 92 00:07:25.680 --> 00:07:27.639 her flight. She's like, well, just tell me what time my flight 93 00:07:27.680 --> 00:07:30.360 thinks. He's like flight, you have no flight. He's like get home, 94 00:07:30.879 --> 00:07:33.199 come the best way that you can. You know. He they opened 95 00:07:33.199 --> 00:07:38.399 the trunk through her suitcase and stuff out the trunk and he be bashed out. 96 00:07:38.879 --> 00:07:42.839 I'm like, Oh wow, that's crazy. But Um, and then 97 00:07:42.959 --> 00:07:46.279 of course there's another video of this brother. He's into the hotel and she's 98 00:07:46.319 --> 00:07:49.319 on the phone and he's telling her he's talking about heaven, spent all these 99 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:54.560 thousands of dollars and about her lobster and this, that in the third and 100 00:07:54.920 --> 00:07:57.759 uh, she ain't putting out in this and then her. So she got 101 00:07:57.759 --> 00:08:01.480 to get out and he didn't. Canceled her flight home him and she's calling 102 00:08:01.519 --> 00:08:03.160 a friend, you know, and he's putting out the hotel, talking about 103 00:08:03.199 --> 00:08:07.480 he has another one woman on the way right now, what not. That's 104 00:08:07.480 --> 00:08:11.920 gonna, you know, do what he needs to do and whatnot. Brothers, 105 00:08:11.759 --> 00:08:16.680 brothers, look at him. You put you, you're making it, 106 00:08:16.680 --> 00:08:22.600 you're putting yourself in a real bad, tough position. You are making it 107 00:08:22.680 --> 00:08:26.879 hard on yourselves and you're making it hard on guys who's really truly looking for 108 00:08:26.920 --> 00:08:33.000 something. Now again, you are entitled to do with whatever it is that 109 00:08:33.080 --> 00:08:39.639 you want to do with with your money. If you are taking the initiative 110 00:08:39.799 --> 00:08:45.120 to fly a woman out, whether you've been talking to her for a period 111 00:08:45.159 --> 00:08:46.600 of time, short period of time, or whatever the case may be. 112 00:08:48.159 --> 00:08:56.399 Let's be very clear about this. This woman is not entitled or obligated, 113 00:08:56.320 --> 00:09:01.559 hear me, and hear me well, brothers, she's not entitled or obligated 114 00:09:01.759 --> 00:09:11.519 in any shape, form or fashion two give her body to you. If 115 00:09:11.559 --> 00:09:16.960 you've flown her across the country to the next city, to the next state 116 00:09:16.080 --> 00:09:22.519 over or to some exotic destination. She is not entitled or obligated to give 117 00:09:22.600 --> 00:09:31.480 you her body. She is not. Now, if the two of you, 118 00:09:31.639 --> 00:09:35.759 and what I think it should also happen, have this conversation and it 119 00:09:35.840 --> 00:09:41.000 should be understood whether the two of you are sneaking or whether that or the 120 00:09:41.080 --> 00:09:45.960 kids call a sneaky links, or whether the two of you are establishing a 121 00:09:46.080 --> 00:09:50.480 relationship or this is just somebody that you just want to, you know, 122 00:09:50.519 --> 00:09:52.879 get together, do what grown folks doing and kick rocks and you just want 123 00:09:52.879 --> 00:09:58.799 to show a good time. But but again, make it, make sure 124 00:09:58.919 --> 00:10:03.320 that it's communicated understood that in in the beginning of all of this, before 125 00:10:03.840 --> 00:10:07.960 you spend your money to fly this woman out, that you spend your money 126 00:10:07.120 --> 00:10:11.480 to put her up in this anxietic hotel, that you spend your money to 127 00:10:11.519 --> 00:10:16.240 go to these fancy five star restaurants and everything, you know that that the 128 00:10:16.320 --> 00:10:20.480 main using the meals are cause probably more than I even make in a two 129 00:10:20.480 --> 00:10:24.919 week period. Now, I'm not about to tell y'all what I'm making a 130 00:10:24.919 --> 00:10:30.720 two week period, so don't even ask. Let's just say your boy, 131 00:10:30.799 --> 00:10:33.360 do okay. I'm I do okay. Do enough to make sure I take 132 00:10:33.399 --> 00:10:37.039 care of my bills and take care of my children and my grands. So, 133 00:10:37.519 --> 00:10:43.440 but I digress. So again, she is not entitled to that and 134 00:10:43.480 --> 00:10:48.240 she is not obligated, fellas. But again, this should be established and 135 00:10:48.159 --> 00:10:52.039 understood from the jump. And then, you know what, Hey, I'm 136 00:10:52.039 --> 00:10:56.679 gonna even go a little further with that. She may have, you may 137 00:10:56.679 --> 00:11:01.039 have had that conversation and she may have that intention in doing so prior to 138 00:11:01.120 --> 00:11:05.720 getting there. But when she gets there, the divide between the two of 139 00:11:05.759 --> 00:11:13.320 you may not be what it is. The vibe with the two maybe off, 140 00:11:13.559 --> 00:11:18.559 and if that's the case, again, she's not obligated to do so. 141 00:11:18.960 --> 00:11:22.240 She is entitled to Change Her mind. And guess what, Fellas, 142 00:11:22.360 --> 00:11:31.600 that is okay. If you had any genuine interest in this woman from the 143 00:11:31.720 --> 00:11:35.399 jump, you know and you're on the up and up, that should be 144 00:11:35.440 --> 00:11:41.799 okay. You never you can have another opportunity. You never know that that 145 00:11:41.960 --> 00:11:45.399 it may, it may change over, uh, from that particular time. 146 00:11:45.440 --> 00:11:48.559 But again, let's be clear, fellaws, she it's not obligated. Nor 147 00:11:48.240 --> 00:11:56.000 if she uh has a right to sit there and UM um give you her 148 00:11:56.039 --> 00:12:00.559 body. Okay, we're gonna put a pen in it. Right now, 149 00:12:01.759 --> 00:12:05.440 sisters, sisters, let me talk to you for your second. Let you 150 00:12:05.559 --> 00:12:09.000 let your cousin, and you can't folk talk to you here for a second. 151 00:12:09.559 --> 00:12:16.039 Sisters. Now again, like I just told the brothers, you're not 152 00:12:16.120 --> 00:12:20.480 obligated to sit there and share your body with this man. If he chooses 153 00:12:20.480 --> 00:12:24.399 to fly you out to a different state, put you in a Nice Hotel 154 00:12:24.679 --> 00:12:30.399 or, uh, some exotic location and everything and and spend several thousands of 155 00:12:30.440 --> 00:12:35.279 dollars on you, he's not a titled Today. But, sisters, let's 156 00:12:35.360 --> 00:12:37.720 let's, let's Le's, let's, let's go up with with you too. 157 00:12:37.799 --> 00:12:41.600 Now. Communication is key. Now, before you accept this man's ticket, 158 00:12:43.639 --> 00:12:48.200 before he even spends anything and you agree to get on this plane, before 159 00:12:48.320 --> 00:12:52.039 you go sit there and pack your bag up, go to the airport, 160 00:12:52.600 --> 00:12:58.000 go through Um, Um, you know, t s a get on that 161 00:12:58.039 --> 00:13:03.240 plane. Have that come station with that brother to be sure and it's understood 162 00:13:03.279 --> 00:13:05.799 that, hey, just because you're flying me out, you know I'm in 163 00:13:07.039 --> 00:13:11.120 under no obligation to share myself with you. Be Clear and preconcise with this 164 00:13:11.240 --> 00:13:13.759 brother now, like I said that the two of you have been talking to 165 00:13:13.799 --> 00:13:18.480 a point to where y'all have established, Um some type of friendship, slash 166 00:13:18.519 --> 00:13:22.200 relationship, or whether you're sneaky links or whatever the case may be, and 167 00:13:22.240 --> 00:13:26.559 this is your intention. Alright, then this understood. What's what you know. 168 00:13:26.799 --> 00:13:31.240 Now, if you get there again, you are entitled to Change Your 169 00:13:31.279 --> 00:13:37.039 Mind because the vibe may or may not be there. That's understood. But, 170 00:13:37.159 --> 00:13:39.679 sisters, what this is? This is where I have my problem with 171 00:13:39.679 --> 00:13:41.519 you, with with some of you all that right here, with this, 172 00:13:41.639 --> 00:13:43.240 right here, because say, this is something that I used to hear my 173 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:46.159 Mama tiped, my mom and my grandma tell us all the time. And, 174 00:13:46.279 --> 00:13:48.480 you know, not just me, but tell my sisters also, and 175 00:13:48.519 --> 00:13:52.399 the same thing that I used to sit there and tell my daughters. Now, 176 00:13:52.000 --> 00:13:56.720 what you can what you need to stop doing or put yourself and putting 177 00:13:56.759 --> 00:14:00.360 yourself in a position to where you take this trip and you cool, do 178 00:14:00.480 --> 00:14:03.200 what's what, and it doesn't go the way that this brother wants or you 179 00:14:03.200 --> 00:14:07.840 have any particular type of issues. Now you stuck, you like like this 180 00:14:07.960 --> 00:14:11.960 sister, these other couple of sisters that I'm talking about that I saw the 181 00:14:13.080 --> 00:14:16.960 videos of. They are there, they are stuck this guy and put them 182 00:14:16.960 --> 00:14:20.639 out and canceled their flights and everything like that. Now you're stuck in a 183 00:14:20.679 --> 00:14:22.639 different city where you're not from it you have no way to get home. 184 00:14:26.320 --> 00:14:31.559 Why? Why are you traveling to who knows where and you ain't got your 185 00:14:31.559 --> 00:14:39.600 own money? Come on now, why? What? What? What? 186 00:14:39.600 --> 00:14:41.159 What do we do there? There? What the grown folks do? That 187 00:14:41.320 --> 00:14:48.159 at again? My grandmama and my Mama always taught me I don't care if 188 00:14:48.200 --> 00:14:52.840 I was going across town, I don't care if I'm going to the next 189 00:14:52.879 --> 00:14:56.720 city over, whatever the case may be. Always said, they always ben't 190 00:14:56.759 --> 00:15:03.360 told us don't go anywhere with anybody if you ain't got no money. Make 191 00:15:03.399 --> 00:15:05.879 sure you have money because if anything, go home, guess go wrong? 192 00:15:05.919 --> 00:15:09.919 Guess what? You have money to ensure that you can do what, you 193 00:15:09.960 --> 00:15:18.080 can get home. Huh? Am I right, I'm listening and you're feeling 194 00:15:18.080 --> 00:15:20.759 it. I'm listening back. Are you talking to me? Come on now, 195 00:15:22.840 --> 00:15:24.519 come on, sisters. Two of the two of these videos I have 196 00:15:24.639 --> 00:15:30.519 seen, maybe three I've seen. These sisters have jumped on these flights to 197 00:15:30.600 --> 00:15:33.320 go out here with these brothers and they didn't go to the way that these 198 00:15:33.320 --> 00:15:35.840 brothers wanted to, and these brothers then got upset and everything, and now 199 00:15:37.320 --> 00:15:41.840 you're in a position now that you know. Hey, you you didn't whether, 200 00:15:41.919 --> 00:15:43.919 what the case, you wouldn't feeling him, or whether you was trying 201 00:15:43.919 --> 00:15:46.639 to play the brother, or whatever the case may be. I don't know 202 00:15:46.840 --> 00:15:52.120 if you're took him for UH. Some of the folks called it a simple 203 00:15:52.159 --> 00:15:54.440 or whatever the case. Maybe I don't know. I'm not trying to insult 204 00:15:54.440 --> 00:15:58.399 anybody, but if you sit there and you then't took this man's flight, 205 00:15:58.759 --> 00:16:04.240 the money he's spent for this flight and, uh, the money he's buying 206 00:16:04.320 --> 00:16:10.559 for this hotel and this this uh, the food that he's he's purchasing for, 207 00:16:11.679 --> 00:16:14.559 and so you know most of these guys intentions. Now if you're not 208 00:16:14.639 --> 00:16:17.919 feeling them. Again, I'm not taking anybody's side. I'm trying to give 209 00:16:17.960 --> 00:16:21.159 both points of view from both sides. If you're not feeling his brother against 210 00:16:21.159 --> 00:16:23.679 sins as, you're entitled to Change Your Mind, whether you had intentions to, 211 00:16:25.080 --> 00:16:27.279 uh, you know, do what grown folks do when you got there, 212 00:16:27.320 --> 00:16:30.240 not if you weren't feeling you entited to change your mind, but if 213 00:16:30.240 --> 00:16:34.840 the brother decides to sit there and get mad about the situation and canceled out, 214 00:16:34.879 --> 00:16:38.000 like I've seen in some of these videos. Hey, you should be 215 00:16:38.159 --> 00:16:45.759 you should have your own money, rady ain't available, just in case something 216 00:16:45.840 --> 00:16:49.679 like that happened, that you can get your tail home. Now. This 217 00:16:49.759 --> 00:16:56.000 makes no sense for me seeing grown women, you know, being and then 218 00:16:56.000 --> 00:16:59.440 put in situations like this and you ain't got money, that's yourself home. 219 00:16:59.440 --> 00:17:00.919 You're send to them. What am I supposed to how am I supposed to 220 00:17:00.960 --> 00:17:07.480 get home? What? You in another city, heel and you so far 221 00:17:07.480 --> 00:17:10.279 away from home and you can came out there and you ain't bring your own 222 00:17:10.319 --> 00:17:17.039 money. Come on now, come on, that don't make no sense. 223 00:17:17.720 --> 00:17:19.759 I need try to get on board with me on this, sisters, because 224 00:17:19.759 --> 00:17:25.240 this is ridiculous. So I'm I'm I'm this. This is where I'm hot 225 00:17:25.279 --> 00:17:27.400 with your sisters and with this right here. We got to do better. 226 00:17:29.119 --> 00:17:33.519 We have got to do better. Again, I don't know all the details 227 00:17:33.559 --> 00:17:38.160 or whatever the parameters was prior to these videos that I've seen. Whatever it 228 00:17:38.200 --> 00:17:41.839 Casse me, whether it was talked about, what the trip was supposed to 229 00:17:41.839 --> 00:17:48.440 be about, or whatever the case may be, but I need if conversation 230 00:17:48.559 --> 00:17:52.319 was had about it, it needs to be understood. Before any ticket this 231 00:17:52.480 --> 00:17:56.720 purchase, any hotel has been booked or anything of that particular nature. If 232 00:17:56.839 --> 00:18:00.359 not, don't spend this. Don't spend your time, to spend this, 233 00:18:00.359 --> 00:18:03.720 this person's time and money, and to go out there. And, Fellas, 234 00:18:03.759 --> 00:18:07.400 don't you spend your money and time to go fly these women here out 235 00:18:07.400 --> 00:18:10.519 here if you ain't had that conversation with it and it's understood between the two 236 00:18:10.599 --> 00:18:14.079 of you and if it's gonna get to this particular level. But again, 237 00:18:15.079 --> 00:18:19.160 have that conversation. She's entitled the Fellas, I'm back to you again. 238 00:18:19.200 --> 00:18:25.799 She's entitled to Change Her mind and if you had any serious intentions about her, 239 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:29.279 you will respect that. You know, make sure that she gets home 240 00:18:29.440 --> 00:18:33.240 safely and everything. And again, you never know where things may go between 241 00:18:33.240 --> 00:18:34.680 the two of you. She May this ave to fly you out next time 242 00:18:34.839 --> 00:18:40.000 or fly you somewhere and, uh, the vibe may be different next time. 243 00:18:40.039 --> 00:18:44.599 She may want to do what's what. You never know, but let's 244 00:18:44.599 --> 00:18:47.839 not flip out like I've been seeing some of these guys been doing. And 245 00:18:47.880 --> 00:18:51.279 then these are conversations that you're having private. You have no reason to sit 246 00:18:51.359 --> 00:18:55.519 then video this and then put it on the Internet. When we know anything 247 00:18:55.559 --> 00:18:59.960 that goes on the Internet. It's there forever. So come on now, 248 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:04.359 on, cousins and kin folks, I need you all to uh get on 249 00:19:04.440 --> 00:19:08.119 board with this. I need child to do better with this right here. 250 00:19:08.160 --> 00:19:14.079 This is ridiculous. Sisters and brothers, I need y'all to do better, 251 00:19:15.559 --> 00:19:19.000 because this thing here, this is way out of line and need is way 252 00:19:19.119 --> 00:19:26.359 out of bounds. So let's do better with that. Let's get let's let's 253 00:19:26.440 --> 00:19:30.839 let's get this thing back on track, let's communicate better and let's make things 254 00:19:30.920 --> 00:19:37.119 understood so that way nobody's being put in a position to where they're somewhere trapped 255 00:19:37.240 --> 00:19:40.880 or being forced into doing something they don't want to do or anything of that, 256 00:19:40.960 --> 00:19:44.000 particularly because that we don't want, that we don't need. We're not 257 00:19:44.039 --> 00:19:48.039 we're not trying to do that. Okay, let's do this. Let's do 258 00:19:48.119 --> 00:19:52.599 better, because the kin folks have their conversation before any money is being spent 259 00:19:52.920 --> 00:19:59.880 like that. have their conversation with each other and again, let's try to 260 00:20:00.480 --> 00:20:03.559 uh keep these situations from happening, so that way, with the two of 261 00:20:03.640 --> 00:20:06.119 Y'all decided to fly out one way or the other, you know, you 262 00:20:06.160 --> 00:20:08.480 can have a good time, enjoy each other, enjoy the company, whatever, 263 00:20:08.559 --> 00:20:14.079 and then you you never know what may happen. But again, that 264 00:20:14.160 --> 00:20:19.480 ain't my business. Man. I love y'all, I swear to God. 265 00:20:19.519 --> 00:20:23.480 I love your cousins and Camp Fos man. I love being a host of 266 00:20:23.480 --> 00:20:26.960 currently under construction, and I love being able to come talk to you all 267 00:20:27.160 --> 00:20:32.960 like I do twice a week, Tuesdays and Fridays. Remember that. Now 268 00:20:33.720 --> 00:20:37.319 this is season four of your favorite episodes, your favorite podcast in mine, 269 00:20:37.559 --> 00:20:42.960 currently under construction. Listen. Remember the last episode, I said that I 270 00:20:44.039 --> 00:20:48.519 was gonna bring up the topic of Um. When did we start becoming UH 271 00:20:48.839 --> 00:20:52.839 uncle's and AiN'ties? So let's let's, let's, let's, let's kind of 272 00:20:52.880 --> 00:21:00.160 dive intoday right now, because I'm still wigging out on the fact that Um, 273 00:21:00.640 --> 00:21:04.640 outside of my own nephews and everything, I was actually uh out a 274 00:21:04.680 --> 00:21:11.480 couple of weeks ago and its younger guy may have been I don't know, 275 00:21:11.720 --> 00:21:15.880 maybe mid to late twenties or whatever the case may be. Maybe a little 276 00:21:15.880 --> 00:21:18.240 old, maybe the early thirties, somewhere up in there. UH, he 277 00:21:18.279 --> 00:21:23.000 was trying to get my test. He said say Um, Um, uh, 278 00:21:23.240 --> 00:21:29.920 wait, what? But he was talking to me. So, uh, 279 00:21:30.279 --> 00:21:33.000 I guess. I guess if we look we can look at it as 280 00:21:33.039 --> 00:21:36.039 a term of endearment. I wasn't insulted by it or anything like that. 281 00:21:36.519 --> 00:21:38.200 It just kind of tripping me out because when I was a kid, you 282 00:21:38.240 --> 00:21:45.000 know, we kind of referred to older people as Um, pops, pop 283 00:21:47.279 --> 00:21:51.000 and if it was a woman, we've looked at Um called them, you 284 00:21:51.039 --> 00:21:55.119 know, that's that's mom, you know, and stuff like that. But 285 00:21:55.200 --> 00:21:59.680 it's flipped now. So we've gone from calling them uh, Popa POPs and 286 00:22:00.079 --> 00:22:06.359 um or MOMS too, aunties and uncle. What if that shift come? 287 00:22:11.359 --> 00:22:15.000 It's crazy, but I mean, Hey, you know, it's it's The 288 00:22:15.079 --> 00:22:18.640 Times. We have to adjust and change with the Times. But it's just 289 00:22:18.759 --> 00:22:21.279 funny to me when I sit there and think back on it. You know 290 00:22:22.720 --> 00:22:26.240 that again, it's a term of endearment, I guess. Also, if 291 00:22:26.240 --> 00:22:30.480 we kind of look at it, it's Um a term of respect and respecting 292 00:22:30.519 --> 00:22:37.319 their elders to a degree in their own way. Um, okay, I 293 00:22:37.359 --> 00:22:40.839 mean, I I can, I can get with that, you know. 294 00:22:41.279 --> 00:22:48.200 Um, I guess you never know. You know. So if that's how 295 00:22:48.240 --> 00:22:51.359 you see me, if I'm from out in the boutting, you see me 296 00:22:51.440 --> 00:22:55.359 cousins and Ken folks and Uh you, you one of our younger listeners, 297 00:22:55.440 --> 00:22:57.839 and you see me out and you call me uncle, uncle, or whatever 298 00:22:57.839 --> 00:23:02.119 the case may be. You know, what I ain't looking at is looking 299 00:23:02.119 --> 00:23:03.880 at it. There's no form of disrespect in any shape form of fashion. 300 00:23:04.359 --> 00:23:10.599 I'm all humbled and I'm Hon it that you uh, that you look at 301 00:23:10.599 --> 00:23:18.680 me that way. I appreciate Y'all, uh, I truly do, and 302 00:23:18.720 --> 00:23:22.640 that's gonna do it for us here on this uh episode of currently down the 303 00:23:22.680 --> 00:23:25.039 construction. Remember, we do this thing two times a week. We do 304 00:23:25.079 --> 00:23:26.880 it on Tuesdays, we do it on Fridays, and I'm here forward and 305 00:23:26.920 --> 00:23:30.319 I'm here for all the smoke that we have to give and we have to 306 00:23:30.359 --> 00:23:33.640 bring it help on currently under construction. I love y'all, I swear I 307 00:23:33.720 --> 00:23:41.839 do. Man, listen, continue to get ready. Three Phoenix Fire Radio. 308 00:23:41.279 --> 00:23:44.960 It is coming, man. We are getting this thing together. At 309 00:23:45.000 --> 00:23:48.920 the time is winding down. We are getting this thing together, man. 310 00:23:48.200 --> 00:23:52.319 Look, it is going to be so amazing. I am so looking forward 311 00:23:52.359 --> 00:23:56.559 to it, man. So I have my second date set, you know, 312 00:23:57.359 --> 00:24:02.599 a programming set. So Friday nights. Friday nights is gonna be all 313 00:24:02.599 --> 00:24:06.799 about the quiet storm. Oh, yeah, it's real. It's about that. 314 00:24:07.240 --> 00:24:11.920 Yes, indeed, you ask for what you put in Fort. You 315 00:24:11.960 --> 00:24:15.920 See. You see that you want to here. So Fridays, which is 316 00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:21.200 gonna be at night, Um, time frames gonna probably somewhere from nine, 317 00:24:22.279 --> 00:24:26.559 maybe midnight or one, eight M but yeah, we're gonna, we're gonna 318 00:24:26.559 --> 00:24:32.960 bring you the quiet storm. We're gonna bring you all of your good Um, 319 00:24:33.240 --> 00:24:37.039 early two thousands, nineties, eighties and maybe some of our seventies, 320 00:24:37.200 --> 00:24:41.240 uh slow jams, and we're gonna give it to you. We're gonna get 321 00:24:41.319 --> 00:24:44.480 you in the mood, we're gonna set you, we're gonna get your right 322 00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:48.200 and we're just gonna um, we're gonna throw it back, we're gonna we're 323 00:24:48.200 --> 00:24:52.000 gonna make it feel good. Yeah, man, I'm excited about it. 324 00:24:52.079 --> 00:24:56.200 And again, Sunday is gonna BE WE'RE gonna get you ready for church. 325 00:24:56.240 --> 00:24:57.960 We're gonna get you ready to go, uh, get your praise and your 326 00:24:57.960 --> 00:25:02.359 worship bones, you know, Sunday Mornas you know, we're definitely getting ready 327 00:25:02.400 --> 00:25:08.079 for that. Saturdays, Um, Saturdays look kind of like from what I'm 328 00:25:08.119 --> 00:25:11.720 seeing, what I'm getting and everything, it looks like we're going to maybe 329 00:25:12.599 --> 00:25:22.440 have a blues slash throwback R and B Day, something like that. Right 330 00:25:22.440 --> 00:25:26.799 there. We're still it's still kind of fluidic right now as far as what 331 00:25:26.880 --> 00:25:30.400 that's gonna be. But Um, this is what we're getting right now. 332 00:25:30.480 --> 00:25:33.119 This is what we're probably trying to move towards too. So, UM, 333 00:25:33.240 --> 00:25:37.079 stay tuned. We're we'RE gonna, we're, we're gonna keep you updated on 334 00:25:37.160 --> 00:25:41.920 that winding stays. I'm not sure just yet, but as soon as we 335 00:25:41.960 --> 00:25:44.640 figure out what we're going to do on those on that particular day, will 336 00:25:44.640 --> 00:25:48.039 definitely get with you on that. But for sure, Friday nights, quiet 337 00:25:48.039 --> 00:25:56.519 storm, Sunday morning praise and worthship. Phoenix Fire Radio Coming Three UH take 338 00:25:56.559 --> 00:26:03.480 your local listings and Yeuh UH APPs for whenever it particularly come out. I'm 339 00:26:03.519 --> 00:26:10.640 going to sometime during the holiday season. We're gonna give you a preview. 340 00:26:11.359 --> 00:26:17.640 Uh. So we're looking out for that. Phoenix fire radio coming and again 341 00:26:17.640 --> 00:26:19.240 I want to thank you all for joining us here. I'm currently under construction. 342 00:26:19.880 --> 00:26:22.880 Um, listen to US wherever you get your podcast, wherever you listen 343 00:26:22.920 --> 00:26:26.960 to your podcast, you can listen to us on any of your platforms. 344 00:26:27.519 --> 00:26:33.480 Or our website itself, under construction, DOT COM UM, or on our 345 00:26:33.960 --> 00:26:37.839 our alternate site for sounder, DOT FM Um. Or you can listen to 346 00:26:37.920 --> 00:26:41.319 us on wherever you get your podcasts, of on one of our several different 347 00:26:41.319 --> 00:26:47.039 platforms. Um. You can listen to us on apple podcasts, Google podcasts, 348 00:26:47.160 --> 00:26:52.039 spotify, overcast, podetcast, I heard radio, deezer, radio, 349 00:26:52.160 --> 00:26:56.839 Public Castro many, many others. Again, you can listen to us on 350 00:26:56.400 --> 00:27:03.000 apple podcasts, Google podcasts, by the Deezer, I heart radio. UH, 351 00:27:03.359 --> 00:27:10.319 podcast, one, Castro cast box, many many others. All right, 352 00:27:10.559 --> 00:27:11.440 but I'M gonna get on up out of here. I got I got 353 00:27:11.480 --> 00:27:14.720 some things I need to do cousins in Ken Folk. So I'M gonna get 354 00:27:14.720 --> 00:27:17.079 on up out of here. But, uh, I'm gonna Talk to you 355 00:27:17.119 --> 00:27:22.039 all on Tuesday. So let's gonna Bring this thing in and put it together 356 00:27:22.039 --> 00:27:26.079 and do like we always do. Um, takes the village to put this 357 00:27:26.119 --> 00:27:29.680 thing together, and you are all my village. Or we're going to continue 358 00:27:29.680 --> 00:27:32.960 to keep building this thing together, you and I, step by step, 359 00:27:33.240 --> 00:27:37.319 one break at a time. Currently under construction and I'm gonna Talk to you 360 00:27:37.359 --> 00:27:41.559 all in a few days. Y'All have a wonderful weekend. I love y'All. 361 00:27:41.039 --> 00:27:44.799 Peace. Season four currently under construction